Saturday, October 11, 2008

Trust Issues

Many couples struggle with trust issues in their relationships. Trust or commitment is the fundamental bond that holds relationships together. How trustworthy are you in your relationships? How do you define trust? Recently, I had a couple come to my office with a trust issue. After viewing each other's perspective regarding a recent incident, both partners started to recognize their own stumbling blocks. The defining moment was when they saw they were more "me" focused than "other" focused in the relationship. Great "a-ha" moments come from little awakenings!

1 comment:

james and natalie said...

So true. I see a big difference my relationship with my husband when I start thinking less about what I want and more about what he wants. And its usually at that point that I realize that his wants are really simple and mostly he just wants us to be happy.